- My therapist: Look at nature. Look at flowers. We never walk into our garden and say "Oh wouldn't that flower be so much more pretty if it were taller? Or red instead of pink?" No, we don't. Because nature was created perfect just as it is. And so are we. We are part of nature, we are how we're meant to be, we are perfect just as we are.
It’s easy to take the people closest to us for granted and assume they know how we feel about them. You might think, “Oh, I don’t need to say anything. They know how I love them.” Or, “She knows I think she is beautiful…He knows I think he’s great.” But they are the ones who need your affirmation the most! A blessing is not a blessing until it is spoken.